Go For It!!!

I turned down a date this weekend... :-/.  Perhaps because there are a few others I would rather go out with. BUT I am not tied down to anyone. I just hate that whole... awkward for real date after JUST meeting them in a club a week before!! Maybe that is the reason!!! The meeting at a club. However, should that club man be taken out of the equation only because he was in the club? I guess not! So pretty much what I started my blog for..... I am not letting happen. EEEK! I knew I would have to jump out of my comfort zone for this. dumb! I suppose I just use the man for confidence build up, and a good conversation, and then peace out the chance I get...... nonetheless, what if the guy is not someone you had only met for a night? What if he was a friend? Someone who you have invested relations and trust in.  This friend begins pursuing perhaps more.  Not just a friendship.  Go for it? Or no! Because all these questions come up!!! In my mind at least. Does he want to get serious? What if another guy wants you later down the road a bit? Am I wanting this or is it just fun and safe?!?! ugh. DO NOT ASK THE QUESTIONS!
    You cannot be afraid to let someone in. Especially if he is deserving! Doing everything right, and being kind and encouraging. Give a chance! This goes for club men and also for friends. I am a firm believer that love at first sight can occur, but I also believe one day after being friends with someone for even ten years you can wake up and be completely in love with them.
  Anyhow, Open yourself up a little! You do not have to open your legs or your mouth! ( although that tends to come along with it for most... hhahah) open up the heart. Cheeseballs I know.... But if he is reaching for and deserving it, then GO FOR IT!  Because in todays society, when a good man actually approaches you and asks you for a hangout, a date.... give him one!

Get what i'm preachin? ;)