Making Yourself Comfortable.

   I had a good conversation with a new friend of mine the other day, and when I say new friend, I literally mean new.  I met Scott at a BBQ on sunday. We have fun hanging out and talking, exchange numbers, and two days later I get a phone call saying he had a friend in town and needed someone to hangout while Scott worked. So I picked him up and after a few hours we became best friends. Hahahaha. I suppose it does not take to much time to create a wonderful friendship. ( in some cases) Anyways, I was talking to Vince ( the new friend) and he was talking about guys and girls. He was telling me he was very wise when it came to relationship things..... I suppose we all think that way, but he was pretty legit. Although,  he made a big point at the end of the conversation ladies. I asked him what he liked in a girl, the looks and whatnot.... He rambled on and then summed everything up in the perfect saying. " If she does not look comfortable, then I am not comfortable." In his case, he was talking about fashion, such as wearing the highest heals and the tightest dresses where we are always having to suck in and put out arms around our bellies, so no one sees the rolls..... But really, the saying could be taken in more ways than one. If I am not comfortable.... for me, to be comfy means.... being around people I feel safe with, and then when it comes to fashion, just leggings and a hoodie, or dress and my Uggs. mmmmmm!!! But really, we go out of our way to always try to be perfect that we forget who we really are!
   Living in Hollywood does intensify this whole thing times ten. However all ladies really try to hide themselves to make themselves stand out to all men. Why hide? What is there to hide ladies? We are all made so differently, yet still share the same beauty! How ravishing is that!?
  I adore art, and try to get to the museums as often as I can, and the portraits of women are all portrayed so differently, but the purity and the womanly figure is still depicted the same. (well, most of the time).
Every curve placed where it is designed to be. Every freckle, every hair.  I urge you all to read through Song of Solomon. I do not care if you are a Christian, this is a book that so wonderfully describes love and the body and the intimacy we all desire. I will be honest. The book is all out there. And I love it for that! Read Solomon chapter 4. The chapter goes into His adoration for his bride. Wow.
   We are all made in different shapes and sizes. We all desire a love that will never fail. We all desire to be rescued. However until we are comfortable with our own selves. No man will feel comfortable around us.
  So get Comfy!!!! :)

Ps.  go ahead and listen to some sexy songs and dance around the kitchen! Always helps.:)